SOMEONE HELP ME GET IT

Recently I have encountered a few of the same situations , mainly with my amigos.

WHY ARE SIDE CHICKS ALWAYS SO COMFORTABLE WITH BEING A SIDE CHICK?

--If YOU are a sidechick , leave a comment or something below with the answer PLEASE--

I really do not understand how a side chick will boast , brag ,and talk about how the "wifey" is dumb for whatever reason when in actuality SHE is the dumb one.

Why is the sidechick always so content with knowing she "took" someone else's man?

Why is the sidechick always the one to be like 'HAHAHAHA YOUR THE SIDE CHICK'...how does that make you look?

Ladies ,you must have morals ,and if you don't GOOGLE how to get some.WTF!! If you ever said something like "yea ,he gonna leave her." "she dumb as hell for staying with him , cuz he with me now." or anything in that nature you're a dumb ass. IT IS OFFICIAL.

I don't agree with the sidechick and "wife" thing at all . ONE OR THE OTHER. Guys will fuck it all up for a night of new pussy . Guys will get to know a female , give her some attention then all of a sudden she thinks she is some type of importance to your life. Meanwhile ,you're stuck looking like the dumbass in the end . Yes, you have "backup" for the time being ,but now you have an ultra dumbass just happy she got you and not willing to do half the things the "wife" did. Yes, it may be a "new" feeling ...no arguing , no bs , straight laughs EVENTUALLY that shit will stop . GET IT TOGETHER LADIES.

Comfortable

Sept.1 ---

Eyes closed , windows 75% down , sunroof back ,2:58 am ;not a care in the world.Mind is at ease and that feels so new to me . I look over to my left and have a huge grin on the inside. It feels like I waited all my life for this moment right here. I hope this isn't the calm before a storm but honestly how I feel now , I probably wouldn't care if the storm was "Katrina". Vibin to Drake ,ironic because I just saw his special on MTV not to long ago . (Literally about half hr ago). "Only tryna get ahead"is all i'm hearing Drake say. I don't wanna o.d but I want this forever. Gotta play my cards right. I gotta get my mind right.Astonished and Amazed . Is this love? Who knows ?.... I do know this is comfortable.

Hair update

As everyone knows , I change my hair more than some people change there underwear...seriously lol. One day I will do a two yr update on my hair ..Something like pics from when I started this blog to now .Until then , here is my latest.

UN.DEUX.TROIS.

three names i go by.

Tash - Tashito - Tashie

Three place i have lived.

Passaic all my life unfortunately

Three people who text/bbm me

Mandel - Tamara - Jade

Three fave drinks

Sweet Tea w/ Extra Ice - Grape Juice - YooHoo

Three favorite old shows

Martin - A Different World - Fresh Prince

Three tv shows i love

Everybody Hates Chris - The Game - Alot of those Bridezilla-esque /fashion & decorating shows

Three fave dishes

Baked Ziti -Chicken Alfredo -Cabbage w/pork and rice YUMMM!!

Three place i have been

All in the states but :::South Carolina , The Village in NY (DEF WORTH MENTIONING)- Gulf Of Mexico

Three beauty/makeup products i can't live without

Mascara - Leave In Conditioner -Blistex

Three places i would like to visit

Most of Europe - Bahamus - Hawaii

Three things i'm looking forward to

Starting a successful career - Having the world know who I am for good reasons - Getting over all of my self doubt/insecurities

Three jobs i have had

Party City (fxck them )-Cooking in Chez Technique ((the restaurant at my h.s )) - Walgreens ....the death of me for the past 4 yrs lol.

INSPIRED BY LOVE-KEYS.BLOGSPOT.COM

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I honestly have no idea who I would want to that is deceased.Seriously I am like blank right now ;if it ever comes to me I will blog on it though.

Someone I want to talk

Letter 10

Someone I want to talk to but I cant as much as I like would be God. I know God is not a person but honestly I really would love to talk to God way more than I do .I am not going to get into my relationship with the highest power but yea I need to get more in sync with God.Enough Said.

I would also like to talk to Mike. He probably thinks I stopped caring about him and such but that was NEVER the case.We did grow apart but I really would like to speak to him more.It just seems extra weird at times :(. SIDEBAR::I AM WISHING YOU THE BEST OF LUCK AND SAFETY IN YOUR FUTURE SINCE YOU ARE IN THE ARMY NOW .

8 and 9

Favorite Internet Friend:: cant really answer this , sorry ..
Someone I want to meet:: Me in the future. I would really love to see my outcome . I know that it is dumb to say I would want to meet me but I am so serious. If I wanted to meet a few people other than myself in the future I would definitely want to meet
Jay -Z
Oprah
Kat Stacks

That is all that's coming to my head at the moment.

EX-BOYFRIEND ...EX-CRUSH

To all my ex -boyfriends , ex-crush ,everyone who is an "ex" THANKS !!!! . I am not going to dwell on these people ,but I am so sincere when I say thanks . You guys would never understand how much you not being in my life has helped me . Everything is a learning experience , and I definitely learned how to be stronger. I learned how to get rid of someone who does not appreciate me . I learned the dumbness awareness signs early in the game . Last but not least , I learned how to be me . I know that if someone can not or will not accept me they can keep it moving like the rest of the world :).

EX-BOYFRIEND ...EX-CRUSH

To all my ex -boyfriends , ex-crush ,everyone who is an "ex" THANKS !!!! . I am not going to dwell on these people ,but I am so sincere when I say thanks . You guys would never understand how much you not being in my life has helped me . Everything is a learning experience , and I definitely learned how to be stronger. I learned how to get rid of someone who does not appreciate me . I learned the dumbness awareness signs early in the game . Last but not least , I learned how to be me . I know that if someone can not or will not accept me they can keep it moving like the rest of the world :).

STRANGER DANGER!

I am supposed to be writing a blog about a stranger but nothing comes to my mind .

So , on that note .. STRANGER DANGER..