Wednesday, October 29, 2008

ahhhh!! my thoughts and confusion on relationships

Today is pretty much going down hill .I know this really isn't a way to start of a blog but hey its all about telling whats going on in your life, thoughts and things in that nature so0o0 there it goes lol . I am ultra CONFUSED right now about males. I don't want to say they are all messed up in the head but sheesshhh they are ultra hard to understand. Seems like every female i know is having some sort of problem with a guy.People being caught in between their feelings and someone else happiness. Friends having guys use them , and treat them like shit just for a few dollars .Guys wanting to be with you yet not wanting to do what it takes to keep you .Part Time Lovers . I woke up with a sense of not knowing . Wondering what went wrong or what happened within a day to make someone not look at you the same , or what went wrong within a day to have someone decide to just not talk to u . Maybe people come off strong ,not knowing that coming off strong is ultimately pushing the other person away .Maybe they feel like they have to come off strong to let you realize they really do care , or that they don't want you to think they are just there wasting space and time to go .Crazy because you put yourself in a shell then as soon as someone brings u out of that shell , all of a sudden things drastically change . When you find the person that is overall great ,brings out the best in you , would support you in whatever , wants to be embraced by you always , what exactly do you do to NOT come off strong?How do you limit yourself to showing your feeling ? Do you just lie to yourself to the point you make yourself believe you don't like them when in actuality you wouldn't want anything else but to be with that person ?HMMMMMM ... If anyone is reading this blog and wants to help me out it is greatly appreciated ...... my song of the moment .. IM YOURS -JASON MRAZ ... idk why but its kinda cheerin me up .. well until next time :-)

2 comments:

Brothers Blog said...

Man we've all had these days. Honestly I have a strong belief that you should always be yourself. And if the person can't accept you for you then they really don't deserve to be with you. I think when you find that one person then you won't even have to worry about are you coming off too strong because you will be so comfortable with just being you that it won't matter. That person if they are indeed the one will love and adore you for all your qualities good and bad.

A Day In The Life of {[TASH]} said...

wow i totallly agree . I Didnt look at it that way but "I think when you find that one person then you won't even have to worry about are you coming off too strong because you will be so comfortable with just being you that it won't matter. " is a good way of looking at things..i like